Saturday, February 19, 2011
Update on Surgery
Now the update - Riley was such a tough guy going into surgery. We discovered several surgeries ago that Versed(drug given to children to make them a little loopy before procedures) was not a good or necessary idea for Riley. It made the wake up and recovery FAR worse. Anyway, with no drugs or tears our brave little man went back to surgery. Reportedly he did as daddy suggested and asked everybody "what's up doc?". I know corny but cute all at the same time! We were then taken to the waiting room where everyone else was. When I say everyone that would be because altogether there were EIGHT people there to love and support us through this - GOD is great!
Since I hadn't had breakfast yet I went down to get some with Bro. Randall, Mrs. Edie and Bro. Bobby. When I returned to the waiting room Chester told me the nurse called just a couple minutes after I left to say they were getting started. I sat and talked and entertained Tate and then about 20 minutes later the phone in the waiting room was for us - the nurse said they were done. What? This surgery was supposed to take about 6 hours and it had barely been an hour. Was this good or bad? We were taken to the consult room and waited for the doctor. He came in and told us that he had expected this to be far more arduous (his word not mine), but that everything was right where he needed it to be and he didn't encounter any scar tissue like he had anticipated. Cool - Praise the Lord! Only God could take a six hour surgery and condense it to less than one!
Riley was only in recovery about 30 minutes - very short compared to his usual recovery times. He went straight to his room - no ICU for this boy. He was definitely feelin' a little weak but he was talking and doing good. He was doing well enough (and Tate not so much) that Chester and I decided it would be best for Tate and me to head on home. He does not do well out of his element. Spoiled? YES
Well, Regan and I went back to get Chester and Riley yesterday and all is well. He is a little sore, but on his way back to doing anything he wants to. We like the urostomy bag pretty good. A little funny though - last night when I was going to hook him up to his night bag (a first for me) I didn't hold the end up right and sprayed pee all over me and Riley's foot!
God is forever faithful to be there with us and to hold our hands through all that we have been through with Riley, but this time I just can't thank or praise Him enough!
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Surgery
We did have the benefit did I just say benefit? of Riley having a colostomy the first 18 months of his life, so we kinda know what to expect. I was really good at getting a good seal with his skin and keeping him from having skin breakdown and getting infections. The ostomy nurse at the hospital said I was better than alot of ostomy nurses she has worked with - not braggin' just sayin'. Anyway, I just wonder what life will look like for Riley. Will he be self conscious? Will it be hard to get clothes to fit? Will he still run and play like he does now? I know it will all work out, but I'm just ready to get to that point. Guess it's just the mama in me! Would ya please pray for us? We leave tomorrow for Atlanta and Riley will be admitted tomorrow afternoon. I plan to post on Facebook after surgery, and then here once we are home. Also, say a special prayer for Tate. He's going with us and he can be quite a high maintenance little handful.
Carry Your Load!
We begin with everyone dumping there dirty clothes in the middle of the living room floor. I know this isn't altogether practical for some, but this is our method and it works for us. There the clothes are sorted and the marathon of clothes washing begins. I usually sort, Coot washes, magic fairies fold them and put them away...yeah right. Well, just check out the pictures....
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Father/Daughter Dance 2010
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Monday, January 31, 2011
Surgery & Lookin' Back
Just wanted to let everyone know we are having surgery on February 15. Riley will be converting from the very aggravating mitrofanoff (used for cathing) to a urostomy (bag). I'm thankful to report that I have peace about the decision and am now just ready to move on with it and see what God has in store for him.
Riley has always amazed me how he never allows any of his "attachments" to slow him down. From the time he was born he has always had a lot of spirit and zeal for life. I feel we should all strive to be this way. Oh now sometimes he gets a little too lively, but he's a great little man that's come a very long way. I thought I'd take ya on a stroll down memory lane with Riley's "attachments".
From the beginning we all got used to a lot of wires. This was a light day in the NICU - he only had an IV and his feeding tube hooked up - still he was happy!
Ahh dialysis...he was always the sweetheart of the place - as long as he was asleep!
When he was awake he kept his women hoppin'!
We figured out ways to get in the bathtub for a little swim. Press 'n Seal wrap and bandage netting worked quite well!
Again Press 'n Seal wrap allowed for a very shallow dip in the pool!
We often had a love/hate relationship with the catheter. (That's what required the Press 'n Seal wrap.) However, it was our lifeline for 3 long years!
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Friday, January 21, 2011
What's Happening
It's so easy to get wrapped up in all that goes on in day to day life and overlook the little things. It 's so easy to get busy doing my "to-do" list and not consider what He wants me to do. I want to know Him in a way that I've never known Him before. I pray He gives me the strength to "press toward the mark" and run this race of life. I've sat on the sidelines far too long and allowed satan to steal my joy, convince me I'm worthless, and tell me I'll never be good enough. I pray that I realize the good and the worth in me is in Christ and He is the giver of True Joy.
I'm not sure what's happening here or where my heart and head are some days, but I know that I know that I am loved by the Alpha and Omega, the Beginning and the End, the Great I AM! And I need Him so much right now. He's working greatly in my life and I just want to get out of His way.
Saturday, January 1, 2011
Here We Go
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When did they get big enough to go to school?
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Aww, Halloween with a cowboy and a princess
(And I'm not just saying that b/c she'll read this either.)
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The cousins Christmas Party - I think they are outgrowing the crafts.
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Blackshear's fabulous Christmas parade
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Tate hated the waiting, but once it got started he was totally content.
(Daddy looks a little less than excited though.)
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Riley was a donkey - no comments please.
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